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15 February 2010
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Shared Parenting - although not perfect, is there a need to change it?

By Alby Shultz



Alby Schultz MP argues that there are serious flaws with existing shared parenting arrangements.

The concept of shared parenting by separated or divorced couples was a basis for family law reforms in 2006.

Recently the Rudd Labor Government commissioned a series of reports on the shared parenting law introduced by the former Howard Government.

The report was ordered in response to the shocking death of four-year-old Melbourne girl Darcey Freeman, who was thrown to her death from the West Gate Bridge a year ago.

The Australian Institute of Family Studies (AIFS) report is by far the most comprehensive and scientific of the three reports presented on shared parenting. Its prevailing theme is that these reforms have generally worked well and have been well received. It does, however, detect substantial room for improvement in terms of dealing with family violence, which, given the dysfunctional status of the lives of some users of the system, will probably always exist. It does not suggest, though, there is any evidence that the reforms have exposed children to a greater risk of violence or other harm.

There are a number of findings as to the beneficial effects of the reforms including the significantly reduced number of filings in children's matters, in particular, which should result in speedier and more dedicated access for the less tractable and more worrying cases.

Retired Family Court Judge, Professor Richard Chisholm, in his report entitled The Chisholm Report, appears to advance a certain agenda. His criticism of the 'friendly parent' provision for instance, is not identified with adverse outcomes by the AIFS report and is dismissed as mere 'gossip' by the Family Law Council.

While identifying the twin primary focuses of shared responsibility and family violence, he takes a firm position in favour of one specific gender. His recommendation is that family violence should be effectively presumed in all parenting cases before the Courts, which apart from introducing an unhealthy suggestiveness into the process; would undo much of the efficiency achieved by the 2006 reforms.

The most concerning aspect of the Family Law Council report is the recommendation to dramatically widen the definition of family violence.

In dealing with the particular issue which Professor Chisholm addressed - that is the incidents of violence - the AIFS found that "There is no evidence to suggest that family violence and highly conflictual inter-parental relationships are any greater in children with shared care time than for children with other care time arrangements."

So, there seems to be something of a difference of emphasis, if not a conflict, between Professor Chisholm and the AIFS.

I am certainly of the view that the release of these reports should not be used by the Rudd Labor Government as a pretext or an excuse to walk away from the principle that every child has a right to a meaningful relationship with both parents on the occasion of family breakdown, while always maintaining, as has never been in doubt, the paramount interests of the child as the first consideration.

The Chisholm Report has also angered men's rights groups, who believe that shared parenting works well for the majority of couples who enter into such an arrangement. That view is supported by the AIFS which found overwhelmingly that 80% of people surveyed (during the compilation of its report) said they supported shared parenting and 70% of couples who were in a shared parenting arrangement said it was working well.

I personally believe many instances of family upheaval resulting in violence against children which invariably in some cases ends up before the Courts, could be averted by a simple shake up in the child support system as administered by the Child Support Agency (CSA).

The overwhelming similarity in cases that are brought to my attention is that even though a separated couple have entered into a shared parenting agreement, there is no recognition of this fact by the CSA in calculating the maintenance that is to be payed by the paying parent.

This is evidenced by reports from paying parents that when their children visit with them, they regularly arrive with no clothes, other than those in which they arrive, and reports from the children to their father that they need these clothes for school or for sport. This triggers conflict and instability within the shared parenting agreement.

Is it not surprising then, why a father continually questions where his maintenance is going when it is plainly obvious that it is not being spent on what it is intended for and why, in some sensitive cases, the father becomes so disillusioned and distressed by the continual aggressive tactics employed by the CSA with respect to the collection of his child maintenance, that a tragedy sometimes occurs.

There is, therefore, an argument for how child maintenance is apportioned and I dare say that if the paying parent was able to direct and observe through CSA administration, a certain percentage of their payment go into a trust account specifically designed to ensure child maintenance is used for the daily and future care of the child, these extreme cases may reduce.

I hasten to add that it may also result in a significant reduction in instances of paying parents refusing to honour child maintenance payments, thereby taking much of the tension out of shared parenting.

Alby Schultz MP is the Federal Liberal Member for Hume.


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